For women in tech who are done going it alone

You gave everything to Day 1.
This is your circle.

A community for women in tech — especially those who've survived big tech culture — to talk honestly about careers, burnout, home life, and what comes next.

Find Your People

You belong here if...

There are things you can't say at work.
We're where you say them.

You're navigating big tech

The promo cycles, the performance reviews, the politics. You're good at your job and somehow that's never quite enough.

You're carrying it all at home too

Work doesn't pause when you get home. Neither do the kids, the partner, the invisible load. You need somewhere to put it down.

You don't know who to talk to

Your colleagues don't get it. Your family tries. You need people who've actually been in that room.

The circle

Not a course. Not a program.
A place to land.

Day One Mom is a women's circle — a space where women in tech come to talk honestly about the things that don't fit in a performance review or a therapy intake form. Career pivots. Promo trauma. The mental load. Leaving. Staying. Starting over. We meet you where you are, not where the system thinks you should be. No frameworks. No five-step plans. Just women who get it, led by someone who's been there.

Reading room

Things we wish someone had written sooner.

CAREER NAVIGATION

What No One Tells You About Leaving Amazon

You've been optimizing for the next level for so long, you've forgotten what you actually want. Here's how to start figuring it out.

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HOME LIFE

The Invisible Load Has a Name. Now What?

Naming the mental load was supposed to help. For most of us, it just made us more aware of how much we're still carrying alone.

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CAREER NAVIGATION

Your Promotion Was Denied. Here's What That Actually Means.

It doesn't mean you're not ready. It often means the system isn't designed to see you clearly. There's a difference, and it matters.

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